Tag: Habits

• Things That Instantly Make a Day Better

  

  

  

  

  

  Let’s be honest, not every day is amazing.

  Not every day needs to be life-changing to be a good day. Sometimes all it takes is one tiny moment that reminds you life isn’t so bad after all. The smell of rain, a stranger holding the door open, finding money in an old jacket, or hearing your favorite song at the perfect moment. These little things won’t solve your problems, but they can make today feel a little lighter.

  For me, there are days where I wake up with a bad or a headache, and then the entire day is ruined. But then there is that one thing that makes things better for me. 

  Here are some tiny moments that somehow make an ordinary day a whole lot better : 
  The List

  Instead of one long list, I came up with certain things in the entire days that makes it better for me.

  ☀️ Morning Wins
  Waking up before your alarm feeling rested : This is actually quite good. It makes me feel better about myself actually. 😀

  The first sip of lemon with chia seed water : As soon as I wake up, one of the first things I do is drink a full glass of water with lemon and chia seeds. And it makes me feel awake.

  A really good hair day : As a curly hair girly, it is really hard for me to have a good hair day, especially in summers, so when I do, it is a good day for me.

  Exercising / meditation : Now, I know that exercising is not for everyone, but I personally am getting into it. So, every day I exercise, it is an automatic good day for me.

  🍰 Tiny Everyday Joys
  Finding money in an old bag : I do know I have money lying around all the time, but when I don’t remember that I have money saved somewhere and I find it, it is such a good feeling.

  Your online order arriving early : This is my favourite. I order stuff all the time. So when I do get my orders early then remember, I get so excited to open them. Just on Saturday, I got my order of journals delivered to me, which was supposed to come on Sunday. So this was a win! 😂

  Crossing something off your to-do list : I have so many things I want to do, but don’t have much time. So when I cross off something I did it feels good.

  Finding a forgotten snack : Very rare, but when it happens, it feels so good. 

  🌿 Nature’s Magic
  The smell after rain : I love rain, it is one of the most beautiful and romantic weather. And the smell it leaves behind is so nice.

  A cool breeze on a hot day : It’s summer, so everytime I am out, the air is usually hot. But when the weather is a little better, the cold air hits so hard.

  Seeing stars at night : I love watching stars at night. It is such a stunning view. 

  📚 Cozy Comforts
  Starting a book you instantly love : Oh this have to be my favourite thing. When I go into a book knowing nothing and ends up falling in love with it.

  A warm blanket : In cold weather, a warm blanket is such a delightful feeling.

  Lighting your favorite candle : I don’t know about favourite, but I do love scented candles. It’s a pity that I can’t use it in the summer.

  Watching your comfort show : I have watched TVD and Friends millions of times, and I still watch it. I love those shows. 

  💛 Human Moments
  A genuine conversation : When I am with my people and we have genuine conversations. It has to be one of my favourite things to do.

  Receiving an unexpected text / call : A friend or someone I used to know calls to check in is lovely.

  Helping a stranger : It does feel nice when a stranger comes to you for help. Kinda makes me feel useful. 😁

  💤 Night Moments
  Journaling : My favourite thing in the entire days is journaling, and writing every thought and every thing that happened in the entire day.

  Gentle stretching : I do stretching before sleeping. I work from home on a desk everyday. So stretching helps a lot and makes my body feel relaxed. Listening to music : I listen to music before I sleep. It calms my mind. 

  🐈 The Little Unexpected Things
  Seeing a cat on your walk : I absolutely love cats. So when I see cats out and about, I just keep looking at them, and want to pet them, all the time. It’s a joyful feeling.

  Catching every green light : I hate travelling, and hate traffic, so the green lights just make my mood better. At least I don’t have to sit around in a car longer than required.

  Finding the cold side of the pillow : This only a summer thing (I think 﫢) because in winters I would hate it.

  Your phone charging faster than expected : I have a samsung, so it does charge faster.

  Your pen writing perfectly the first time : I love a good pen, which is why ink pens are my favourite.

  Bubble wrap : This is nostalgia. I did that as a kid, and I still do it today.

  Your food looking exactly like the menu picture : Oh god, every time I go to a new cafe or restaurant and the food is not good, that’s like a heartbreak and disappointment.   

  Conclusion
  We spend so much time waiting for vacations, promotions, birthdays, and big milestones that we forget how much happiness fits into an ordinary Tuesday. Maybe a good day isn’t made by one extraordinary event. Maybe it’s built from a hundred tiny moments that quietly remind us life is still beautiful.

  August 3, 2026

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• The Art of Returning

  

  

  

  Returning to old passions is sometimes the first step toward finding yourself again.

  I recently started thinking about how much I love writing and all the years I had lost not being able to do it.

  I was just having a conversation with my friend, well kind of asking her about this. She used to draw, but unfortunately due to growing up and responsibilities she had to leave that behind. But recently while speaking to her, I sort of asked her if she draws and she said “Sounds really rejuvenating”.

  This got me thinking, when I was a child I used to write my thoughts, quotes or poems in a notebook as a child and then I absolutely left that due to my studies and being a teenager.

  For years, I did not touch a pen to write my thoughts, until this one time when I was 24 and I met someone. This guy was working in my office and would do freelance writing. He seemed quite intellectual, but that was not a meeting I ever want to remember, that’s a story for maybe a few years… (my mom reads my blog, so I don’t want to talk about boys here….. Not for now.)

  Anyways, I thought it was so cool to be able to do what you love while carrying responsibility.

  

  

  

  And it stuck in my head, why couldn’t I do it?

  And then in 2022, I completely changed my life… I left my job and found a better company, enrolled for my master’s degree in literature, and I also got a home with my sister. 2022 was a pivotal year for me.

  So, I got back into writing in 2024, and started the blog and worked on my books.

  I questioned, what would my life look like today if I had never returned to writing?

  It would be dead actually, it would be boring with me doing absolutely nothing productive. My writing has not only helped me to write, but it in a way shaped my thoughts and discipline in life. So, I would have been a completely different person without it.

  

  

  

  

  

  Why do people slowly abandon the things they once loved?

  People slowly abandon the things they once loved due to natural psychological shifts, including the evolution of personal identity, diminishing returns (habituation), and the accumulation of negative associations or pressure.

  Over time, priorities naturally change, and what once brought joy may no longer align with a person’s current lifestyle or values.

  Psychologists and behavioral scientists point to a few core reasons for this drift:

  The Novelty Wears Off (Habituation):
  The human brain is wired to adapt to recurring stimuli. The intense dopamine rush experienced when first engaging in a new hobby or passion naturally levels out, making the activity feel routine or less exciting over time.

  Identity Shifts:
  As people grow, their sense of self evolves. An activity that defined a person in their teens or twenties might no longer fit who they are, causing them to naturally outgrow it.

  The “Value vs. Effort” Equation:
  Hobbies can start to feel like chores. If the mental, physical, or financial effort required to maintain a passion begins to outweigh the joy it brings, people slowly disengage.

  Performance Pressure:
  Turning a beloved hobby into a side hustle or comparing oneself to experts can introduce stress and anxiety, stripping the activity of its original recreational value.

  Competing Priorities:
  Life stages change. New responsibilities—such as careers, family, or other life events—limit available time, forcing individuals to consciously or subconsciously reallocate their attention.

  Ultimately, abandoning a past interest is rarely a sudden rejection; rather, it is usually a gradual fading of interest as new habits and phases of life take precedence.

  

  

  

  

  

  

  What changes when someone starts doing an old hobby again? Is it the hobby itself, or something deeper?

  When someone returns to an old hobby, the activity itself rarely changes. Instead, the transformation is entirely internal.
  Reigniting a past passion alters your psychological relationship with the activity, reflecting deep changes in your personal growth and mindset.

  What Actually Changes

  A Shift in Motivation:
  People usually return to hobbies for therapeutic reasons rather than achievement. The initial drive to master a skill is replaced by a desire for stress relief, nostalgia, or mental clarity.

  Lowered Stakes:
  The pressure to perform or compete typically vanishes. Adults returning to childhood hobbies care less about perfection and more about pure enjoyment.

  New Perspectives:
  Years of life experience give you a different lens. A book read a decade ago reveals new meanings; a sport played with a mature body requires new strategies.

  Dopamine Reset:
  The brain is no longer chasing the frantic high of novelty. Instead, it experiences the grounding comfort of predictability and familiarity.

  The Deeper Psychological Shift

  Returning to a hobby is often an act of self-reclamation. It signifies a desire to reconnect with a version of yourself that existed before life became consumed by career, family, or societal pressures. It is an intentional choice to prioritize personal joy over productivity, marking a transition from survival mode back into self-care.

  

  

  

  

  

  

  

  What do we lose when we stop creating, exploring, or playing just because we’re adults?

  When we stop creating, exploring, and playing in adulthood, we lose essential cognitive, emotional, and social benefits. Abandoning these activities diminishes our natural adaptability, restricts our ability to relieve stress, and stifles the creative problem-solving skills necessary for navigating a complex world.

  Here is a breakdown of what we miss out on when we lose touch with these vital human drives:
  1. The Cost of Not Creating

  Suppressed Emotional Processing: Making art or building things provides a healthy outlet to process complex feelings, leading to lower anxiety and better mood regulation.

  Stifled Innovation: Creativity isn’t just for artists; it is the foundation of innovation. Without it, we lose the drive to challenge the status quo and find novel solutions in our careers and personal lives.

  Diminished Sense of Agency: Creating reminds us that we can shape our environment. When we stop, we transition from active participants in our lives to passive consumers.

  1. The Cost of Not Exploring

  Reduced Neuroplasticity: Exploring new hobbies, places, or ideas forces the brain to form new neural pathways. Without this stimulation, our minds become rigid, making it harder to learn new skills.

  Eroded Curiosity: The world is full of nuance. When we stop exploring, we settle for surface-level assumptions and lose the childlike wonder that keeps life engaging.

  Stagnant Personal Growth: Stepping out of our comfort zone builds resilience. Without exploration, we risk becoming complacent and overly comfortable with monotony.

  1. The Cost of Not Playing

  Higher Stress and Burnout: Play is a primary way the nervous system resets. Adults who don’t play are more susceptible to chronic stress and emotional exhaustion.

  Poor Interpersonal Connection: Shared play builds trust and deepens relationships. A lack of it can lead to isolation and more rigid, transactional interactions with friends, family, and colleagues.

  Loss of Adaptive Thinking: Play allows us to experiment, fail, and try again without high stakes. Without it, we become terrified of making mistakes, which heavily limits our willingness to take healthy risks.

  Psychologists and researchers emphasize that play and creativity are not luxuries; they are biological imperatives that keep our brains healthy and our spirits vibrant. Engaging in these activities releases endorphins, boosts immune function, and fosters a lifelong enthusiasm for living.

  

  

  

  

  

  Conclusion

  Maybe growing up was never supposed to mean leaving behind the things that once made us feel alive. Somewhere between deadlines, responsibilities, and the constant pressure to be productive, many of us quietly set aside the hobbies that once brought us joy.

  But the beautiful thing about passion is that it doesn’t disappear. It waits.

  Whether it’s writing, drawing, dancing, painting, playing an instrument, or something only you know, it’s never too late to return to it. You don’t have to be as good as you once were. You don’t have to turn it into a career or a side hustle. You don’t even have to share it with anyone.

  Just begin again.

  So today, I want to leave you with one question: What is one thing you loved doing that you’ve quietly left behind?

  Maybe it’s time to dust it off, give yourself permission to be a beginner again, and rediscover a part of yourself you thought was gone.

  Do let me know which hobbies you want to get in touch with below! 👇🏻💕

  June 28, 2026

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