YES, Absolutely!!!
But don’t get it twisted—I don’t mean I sit around plotting revenge or crying into my Chai. I’m not building a shrine to the past. I’m too busy for all that stupidity.
The thing is, I don’t forgive, and I don’t forget. But I do move on.
If you crossed me once, I won’t drag it around like baggage, I would just graceful collect myself and get out of there. But I also won’t hit reset like nothing happened. You showed me who you are, and I believed you. Lesson learned, chapter closed, next.
Forgiveness might be “holy,” but memory? Memory is power. It’s how I keep my peace, protect my energy, and never get burned twice. I am not looking to be holy or anything like that.
So yes, I hold grudges—but not like an anchor.
More like a mental sticky note: Do not repeat. And honestly? That’s just smart business.
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