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  • Women, Crime, and the Thrill of the Unknown — Why We Can’t Stop Watching?

    When I was a child I used to watch this show called “crime patrol”. It was a show that would show real-life crime cases from across India.

    I would watch it every night with my family, as it helped raise awareness about crimes.

    And now that I am grown I watch a lot of crime shows and documentaries and even Youtubers who report crimes across the world. This made me think why exactly do I find these things so fascinating?

    I have talked to women in my friends and family and they also watch and find crime shows and documentaries fascinating.

    This made me research about this more and I realised that a lot of women in the world find it fascinating. The fascination many women have with crime shows and documentaries has been widely discussed and studied.

    But what is it about crime shows that keep us glued to the screen? Is it the drama, the mystery, or something deeper?

    Here’s a breakdown of possible reasons and what can be concluded from this interest:

    It helps women understand the threats a lot. Many crime shows depict the real-life dangers, such as stalking, abuse, or violent crime. This can be a way to understand and recognise the potential threats and it also helps in learning how to avoid or handle dangerous situations.

    Women are more empathetic and their empathy leads to feel deeply connected to the victims portrayed in these stories. This leads to women seeking justice for the victims and are drawn to narratives where justice is served, as this provides emotional closure. This empathy might also lead to a desire to prevent similar situations from happening in real life.

    Women have a problem-solving tendencies and crime shows often delve into the psychology of criminals and the investigative process. Women may enjoy the intellectual challenge of piecing together clues and understanding human behavior. That can mentally stimulate people in psychological perspective.

    Watching crime stories from the safety of your own homes might help in confronting fears about violence in a controlled environment.  Making them feel a lot more safer and allowing them to process these anxieties without real-world risk.

    Media has historically targeted women with true crime content, often marketed as both thrilling and informative. The narrative of questioning women victims making women sympathic towards the victims. This has created a cycle where the audience and industry reinforce each other.

    Crime shows can empower women by offering insights into patterns of criminal behavior and tools for personal safety.

    While women may disproportionately engage with crime media, the genre reflects universal human curiosity about morality, justice, and the darker aspects of human nature.

    In the end, crime media invites us to explore not just the darkness of human nature,like violence against women, the complexities of justice systems. but also our own relationship with justice and safety in the world.

    Do you think this resonates with why women (or people in general) are drawn to crime media?

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    Good Day Lovelies!! 💞

    January 19, 2025
    creative-writing, crime, dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1818, news, politics, true-crime, women, writing

  • My favourite Animal?

    Daily writing prompt
    What is your favorite animal?
    View all responses

    I absolutely Love Wolf 🐺 and cats🐈.

    I am through and through a cat, to the point that my face shape is also cat at this point. And I’m a wolf on the inside.

    I love them so much, their Loyalty and Bonding, the Leadership qualities, how they communicate, are some the wolf qualities I think I have.

    And for cats, I would say, I am as curious as them, their independence, Intelligence and how much they love their space. Being affectionate (on Their Own Terms), yup that’s me!!

    January 11, 2025
    dailyprompt, dailyprompt-1818

  • Writing Poetry Feels Like a Game of Hide and Seek – But With Words!

    “Her voice and aura that shines bright,
    Through every storm and whispered night.
    The Chaos in her eyes and calm in her words,
    Under the moonlight, she danced like a swan, turning my thoughts into beautiful blurds.”

    This is a poem I wrote when I was 15yrs old. My cousin (who was 2 months older than me) had a dairy, she would always write in it. She would hear a song and write in it, a quote, he thought and her everything that happened in her day. One day when I visited her home, she let me see her diary, (p.s. I wrote some of her quotes in my diary later 🤣), and I was in awe. I think ever since then I had an idea of wanting to be a writer someday.

    So, when I wrote this poem, At the time, writing this poem felt impossible. Rhyming words, making sense of it all, and ensuring it didn’t sound like it was written by a teenager felt like an overwhelming challenge. I thought poetry are the most hardest things one can do.

    And even today I think that poetry are the most hardest form of writing. But why does poetry seems so hard?

    Let’s talk about it.

    Poetry requires conveying your emotions and all the complex ideas in just a few words which can be really challenging. Specially for beginners.

    Poems usually follow a specific pattern or style of writing. It follows a rhyme scheme  or forms. Complying to maintain these structures while conveying your emotions is tricky. There is a precise and vivid language which is followed in poems. So finding words that sounds good and carry a deep meaning can be overwhelming.

    A lack of inspiration often means feeling emotions but struggling to put them into words. It can be hard for people like me to express themselves in words

    There is also a fear of judgement that can be there for new or beginners writers. For beginners, there’s often a fear of judgment—wondering if your poetry is ‘good enough,’ or if it might be dismissed as childish. I still struggle with this sometimes, even as I write this blog post😶.

    But, poetry is just another creative process, like any other art form and it takes practice.

    And remember “PRACTICE MAKES A MAN (or women. Or whatever gender you are) PERFECT”.

    Allowing yourself the freedom to write without overthinking and experimenting with different styles can make the process easier and more enjoyable.

    If you found this helpful, don’t let the difficulty of poetry stop you from writing. Embrace the process, and remember: every poet starts somewhere. If this post resonated with you, share it with a friend or drop a comment below!!

    If you enjoyed this post, please subscribe to my blog for more updates as I share my blogging journey. Or, leave a comment below to tell me what tips you have for a new blogger like me!

    Good Day Lovelies!! 💞

    Hi, I’m Ladyink. This is my first blog, and I’m excited to share my journey as I explore blogging, writing, and everything I’m passionate about.

    January 11, 2025
    creative-writing, poem, poems, poems, poetry, writing

  • An introduction

    Hi, I’m Ladyink, and this is my very first post here! ✨

    A little about me: I’ve always had a love for exploring new things in life. I decided to start this space to start and document my creative journey.Stay tuned for content that’s fun!I’m excited to share this adventure with you all. Let’s get started! 💫

    P.s. I hope we all have fun here and can learn together 🙏🏻

    January 8, 2025

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